I find there is always a way. It is like thinking outside the box. If the front door is locked, maybe you can enter through the back door. Maybe a window? There is a way. Have this mindset and find the way. There is hope and there is a way in. It looks impossible. Others want to discourage you…maybe if you succeed you show their failure of giving up. See their lack of objectivity….maybe? Keep going and find your way.
Maybe it does not to be done all at once and can be chipped away at little by little? Maybe? You can do it.